William Richard Messing, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend passed away peacefully Sunday, August 9th, 2026, surrounded by his loving family. He was 87 years old.

Born on July 29, 1939 in Manhattan, Rich was the son of Kathryn Minnerly Messing and William ‘Knute’ Messing. He was proud of his roots and grew up in Croton-on-Hudson, NY before being drafted into the United States Army. He honorably served his country and was honorably discharged.

After his military service, Rich began a long and dedicated career with the New York City Transit Authority, where he worked for 30 years in Manhattan. He took great pride in his work and in providing for his family.

On May 31, 1970, Rich married the love of his life, Patricia Morganthaler Messing. Together they shared 56 wonderful years of marriage and built a beautiful life centered around their family. They raised their four children in Peekskill, New York, where Rich was a devoted husband and father.

In 2005, when his first grandchild was born, Rich and Patricia moved to Southbury, Connecticut to be closer to their growing family. Being a grandfather brought Rich tremendous joy. He cherished every moment with his eight grandchildren and was always happiest when surrounded by the people he loved.

Rich lived an amazing 87 years filled with love, family, hard work, laughter, and countless memories. He will be remembered for his one-of-a-kind personality, his unwavering love for his family, and the special place he held in the hearts of everyone who knew him.

Rich is survived by his beloved wife of 56 years, Patricia; his four children and their spouses: Colleen and Jeff Witkowski, Kelly and Mark O’Connell, Richard and Dianne Messing, and Kimberly and Azaam Ramjohn; and his eight cherished grandchildren, Catie and Maura Witkowski, Sydney and Abby O’Connell, Sadie and Liam Messing, and Shay and Amir Ramjohn.

Though his family would have given anything for one more day with him, they are forever grateful for the incredible years they were blessed to share with a truly wonderful husband, father and Poppy. His love, laughter, and unforgettable spirit will live on in his family forever.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research.

A Memorial Mass will be held at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 910 Main Street South, Southbury, Connecticut, on Thursday, November 24, 2026, at 10:00 am. Burial will follow with full military honors at Pine Hill Cemetery, 114 Pine Hill Road, Southbury Connecticut. Family and friends are welcome to gather to celebrate his life and honor his memory. 

To leave an online condolence for the family please visit www.munsonloveterefuneralhome.com